Whether your heart just broke, or you're still missing him months or years later - I see you!
My mission isn't to help you find the One, but, to help you become the One. The One who finds her way back home to who she truly is. Long before your first heartbreak and rejection tried to define you & your worth.
It's not a coincidence that you're here. I believe in signs, and I know you do too. It's time for you to get the support you need to move through and beyond the pain, guilt and disillusionment of the relationship that was.
I know what it's like to wake up in the middle of the night, clutch your heart, burst into tears, curl into fetal position, and wish he was still there.
I remember how exhausting it was to replay our break-up over and over in my head, wondering what I could've done differently, thinking it was all my fault.
I vividly remember social media stalking him and his new wife (yes, he married two weeks after we broke up), and comparing her to me.
I remember my mom asking me what I want for Christmas and yelling at her, "You can't get me what I want! No one can!" (I'm so sorry mom!)
You feel like you're never going to love or connect with another person again the way you did with him.
You're ready to feel empowered after having your confidence so badly shaken.
You never want to allow yourself to feel insignificant again for the sake of another person.
You crave support & community from a mentor who's moved through and beyond the loneliness and pain of losing the one.
You want to feel good enough, worthy, and deserving...but you don't know how to get there.
You're ready for the next, "I love you," to come from you.
You have success on the outside, but the true success you crave is committing to yourself and trusting your intuition.
Three 60-minute calls every month, over the course of six months.
This is a six month experience! This experience is tailored to you and where you're at.
You are fully supported! Together, we move through Ignite that Light's Signature H.E.A.R.T. Healing Method, which provides a framework to move you through & beyond this break-up.
Sometimes questions and scenarios come up that just can’t wait. As a private client, you’ll have email and WhatsApp access to me. Some clients prefer one over the other, some prefer both. Either way, you're supported! Reach out to me instead of him! I’ll respond within 24 hours during the weekday and 48 hours during the weekends - but don't be surprised if it's instant!
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Honor yourself.
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end all engagement with him.
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assess & accept responsibility for the role you played.
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RECOGNIZE UNHEALTHY PATTERNS SO YOU DON'T REPEAT THEM.
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TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!
What do I want in a relationship!
Why do I want to be in a relationship?
What are my deal breakers?
What type of woman do I want to become?
What do I want out of life?
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Honor yourself.
He hasn't stopped messaging you since you broke up and you feel emotionally exhausted from it. Let's talk what to do and how to respond. (Remember, not responding is a response!)
Know what to do and how to respond if/when you run into him.
Address how to cut ties with him that feel good to you.
Address WHY and WHAT is stopping you from cutting the cord.
Go over any joint accounts, phone lines, etc. that you may need to separate from, and receive the support in doing so.
What to do to stop feeling so emotionally exhausted from being in contact with him.
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end all engagement with him.
Should I delete and/or block him from social media?
Is that drastic? Does that make me a petty person?
How to deal with guilt of deleting/blocking him?
How to handle stumbling across him on social media.
How do I stop social media stalking him, even when I feel like I have no self control over it?
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end all engagement with him.
Why am I attracted to the men I am attracted to (even if I know they're no good for me!)
How to shift from unhealthy relationship choices, to positive and healthy relationship choices.
What my childhood upbringing has to do with the way I am attracted to men.
Break down the similarities of how I received love as a kid, versus how I allow myself to receive love now - and how to create a new paradigm for receiving love.
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assess & accept responsibility for the role you played.
What does love, lust and obsession mean to me?
How do I know if I'm in love, lust or obsession?
How do I create healthy paradigms?
How did love show up in this past relationship? Was it my definition of "love?"
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assess & accept responsibility for the role you played.
What does sex mean to me?
Am I unconsciously deriving self-worth from sex?
When and why do I choose to engage in sex?
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assess & accept responsibility for the role you played.
Discover why the break-up took place.
Why the break-up had to take place.
What role did I play to get the relationship to the place where we had to break-up?
Where did I not hold strong boundaries, and how can I set boundaries that feel good to me?
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RECOGNIZE UNHEALTHY PATTERNS SO YOU DON'T REPEAT THEM.
How do I quickly recognize red flags so I don't waste weeks, months, or even years with someone?
How do I trust myself, my gut, and intuition when I'm "blinded?"
How do I stop giving the benefit of the doubt when a deal breaker is staring at me in the face?
How do I discern my voice, and stand up for myself when pressure is being placed on me to take him back and/or give him a second chance?
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RECOGNIZE UNHEALTHY PATTERNS SO YOU DON'T REPEAT THEM.
How do I set boundaries like a boss?
How do I communicate like a confident Queen?
How do I handle push back from loved ones after I set the boundary, and still maintain it when they try to make me feel guilty?
How much power do I really have? (One of MY favorite topics because girl, you have ALL the power! Let's tap into it!)
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TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!
How do I release him?
He's emotionally unstable. How do I let him go without being afraid he'll do something to himself?
How do I let go of the possibility of a better past?
How do I forgive myself for everything that took place?
How do I move forward without taking this "bagagge into my next relationship?
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TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!
i'M SO GLAD YOU ASKED!
QUESTION?!
Because knowledge is power & fear of the unknown holds us back.
xo Zeina
The first step to finding the closure you crave and getting over him for good is BELIEF. Congratulations on taking the first step! You, taking the time to apply, and share what you're feeling, is showing that, even if you don't know how, you have faith that THIS process can and will help you.
Once you set a time, there'll be a few questions for you to answer. This will better help me understand where you're at, what you're experiencing, and how I can best support you. I can't wait to connect with you!
Choose a time that best works for you so we can connect. We'll talk in depth about your answers (from step three), and how working in a one-on-one capacity will help you get over him for good. In addition, I'll go over any questions you may have.